Cameron Diaz still looks good with a wedgie

Probably the most important thing everyone should look for in a mate is feeling comfortable around them. Comfortable around that person so much so that you can be yourself, in all of your silliness, madness, and sadness and never feel like you have to act a certain way. Too often we spend our time catering our behavior to what we think would appease that other person. But those relationships will often fail at some point as our true self wants to get out.